Monday, July 22, 2013

A story A reminder to myself. First Labour.

Last post was almost a year ago.
Hihi memang takde kredibiliti nk jadi blogger laa..
Tapi nak jugak post story ni just a reminder for myself.
Actually now in my 39week of 2nd pregnancy.. Amani dah nak jadi kakak soooonnnn..
So itu yang bersemangat nak jugak tulis story ni.Sebelum deliver for the second, first delivery punya story baru nk cerita.hihi. Lagipon semangat keje final week kat opis ni dah ke laut jer..sorry bos :D.

Story of my first labor.
EDD was on 23.3.2012.
But on the day there was nothing happened.
Overdue la kononnye.

Btw,a pregnancy shouldnt be assumed overdue until 42weeks (info ni cuma tau selepas joined GBG kat fb). Truly mase 1st pregnancy agak jahiliah juga pasal gentlebirth ni.my bad.

So KK dah siap2 bagi appointment date after EDD incase belom deliver on EDD tuh.The appointment was on 29th March,on Thursday.Woke up that morning at home, I had my bloody show, mucous plug dah tanggal.So I was a bit excited, i guess labour is near dhla time tu kot. So pegi KK dgn semangatlah jugak kan.hihi.

Di KK,amik bp reading mase tu nurse check 2x, reading agak tinggi.haih.sbb excited gamaknye. Bagitau doctor mucous plug da tanggal and dia buat VE.Mase tu baru 1cm je pon. Tapi sbb BP reading tinggi,doctor suruh admit ward. Selain dari sebab dah overdue la.Masa tu dah terpikir takot kne induce sbb overdue and high bp.adoi.

Masa kat hospital tu,ward full.selalu duk dengar la cerita ni.and mmg tunggu turn la nak masuk ward. But before admit ward tuh pon,lame jugak kat labour room utk inspection bagai. Check BP reading lg,kne VE lagi, scan jugak..bukaan mmg mcm yg kat KK td jela.BP lak mmg tak berapa stabil la.Rasanye sbb excited+nervous kot.haih.So by evening tuh kebetulan ade kosong kat 2nd class,dapatlah masuk ward.

Contraction mmg belum ada.Sampailah malam tu,agaknya lebih kurang time Isyak kot stat rasa contraction,wah sakitnye time tu mmg xbole nk ckp la,tp kalo nk explain skrg pon dh xpasti mcmana sakitnye..hihi cpt nau lupe.tapi mmg sakitla,tak boleh tido duk trn naik katil sepanjang malam.Dalam pukul 3am mcm tu kne VE lagi,and mase tu baru 3cm,and bcos of that, doc cakap tak jadi induce sbb dah ada bukaan kan.So lega la sikit kat situ.Walaupon sakit contraction tu mmg tak lega2 la..huhuhu. All night tak boleh tido tahan sakit.Masa tu ilmu ape pon mmg takde la.Takdenye nk apply breathing teknik ke ape ke.huhu.by morning tuh,around 7am kot,rasa mcm nk terkencing jalan g toilet tapi tak sempat sampai toilet dh keluar airnya..and kat toilet pon another gush of water lagi.Mase tu i think my water just broke la kot sbb tak rasa mcm kencing n mmg xbole control. Tapi xbuat pape pon, mase tu contraction ade jugak in between kot,tapi mcm bole tahan la pulak xmcm mlm td.

Duk jela ward cam biase and dalam pukul 9 mcm tu ada cakap kat nurse rasa mcm nak terberak je.kot2 la dia nk bg ubat berak kan takot aku terberanak.Nurse ckp thn dlu jap lagi jumpa doctor.Tapi kejap tak kejap sangat la dlm pukul 10 ke 11 jugak la baru jumpa doctor.Doctor buat VE lagi and mase tu dah 7cm and dia sahkan mmg air ketuban dah pecah.So doc trus suruh nurse anta labour room. Kelam kabut je tgk nurse nak ngantor ke wad.Dalam pukul 1130am-12 mcm tu dh kat labour room.Masa tu dah inform husband siap2 and dia pon dah ada kat labour room.Masuk2 je labour room check2 sikit2 midwives n nurses tanya rasa nk teran dh ke..ckp yela mcm nak berak je ni..then dorang ckp kalo ade rasa contraction n rasa nk push je push je xpayah thn dh.So apelagi..beberapa kali push tadaa selamatla Amani menjengah dunia.About half an hour je kot dalam LR dah selamat deliver..husband setelkan hal Amani dgn paed apesume and dia keluar utk solat Jumaat.Me and Amani was sent to ward around 2pm mcmtu.

So summary kronology 1st delivery,
7am 29hb- mucous plug expelled
Night 29hb - contraction started
7am 30hb - water broke
1230pm 30hb -safely delivered.

Almoust 16hours of labour kot.started from contraction.
Itupon syukur sgt sebab tak jadi induced and masa dlm LR kejap je,so mmg xsempat amik apa2 gas ke pethidine ke epidural ke.rasanya thp sakit gile mase dlm ward mlm tu,tapi alhamdulillah bjaya get through it.Kiranya almost natural la kot ek.hehe.Selain sakit contraction,satu lg bab xtahan sakit masa kena jahit sbb midwive ngajar training nurse lambat gile jahit smpai dh hilang bius. :( btw,they didnt performed episiotomi on me,natural tear je mase birth tu.2nd degree tear stated tp rasenye mcm sakit gile for me and lambat jugak nk baik plus sembelit dlm pantang.huhu.

In a few days je lagi ni berharap akan deliver for my 2nd baby naturally jugak.Duk berharap takkan ada apa2 complication and imagined my water broke at home,then feel the surge until 5-1-1 baru nak pergi hospital.Harap2lah.Tapi kalau terbersalin kat rumah pon ok jugak sbb bole dcc.hihihi.berangan jela.Kat hosp gov nk buat dcc mcm impossible je,nak pergi private mmg out of question la for me.hehe.Apa2pon semoga akan selamat bersalin utk this 2nd baby nanti and reminder to myself every pregnancy and delivery is different and dont be scared by doctors punye scare tactic if baby overdue 40weeks nak induce.As long as baby movement ok and mommy ok,just wait until baby is ready. InsyaAllah :)

Monday, June 4, 2012

We love our Boba Wrap =)

30 March 2012

Few hours after arrival.
 The proud daddy